"Find some new buddies whose girlfriends don’t pounce on other men at parties"

A sister despises her bro’s slutty girlfriend’s behavior, and former lovers consider reuniting

Relationship advice

Your letters in response to Blane's responses to your letters

Snooping in your lover’s stuff gets you nowhere, and the best proposals come to those who wait

Blane Bachelor answers your romance questions

Blane Bachelor addresses your secrets, fears and concerns

Where you can put your foot down (or, more forcibly, right up Joe’s ass) is if he’s using all of his vacation time on them...

So, back to what I would do in your shoes: I’d use one to snuff out my husband’s next cigarette and tell him that either the cancer sticks go or I do.

The solution is simple: Close your legs.

Certainly, it’s possible to find love from your keyboard, but most people I know who have tried online dating are one bad date away from smashing their monitors with a sledgehammer.

As far as setting an example about respect to your kids—that’s like Amy Winehouse setting an example for sobriety.